Preparation for the 11+ exam need not be a stressful experience. The selection of resources is important: Bond Assessment Papers, Learning Together 11+ 12+ and IPS Publications are among the best. The student's attitude is as crucial as his/her ability; a good tutor can make a significant difference. The tutor's role is to encourage and praise success, to explain every difficulty patiently, to help students to self-assess and track progress and, above all, to help them to see the exam as an opportunity to show what they can do.