The Road to Happiness in Playing Music

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Subject: Classical Guitar
Last updated: 11/02/2011
Tags: great master, i want to be able to play like that!, playing music
Classical Guitar

We hear a great master of the guitar, and say to ourselves, "I want to be able to play like that!"  This is perfectly natural, and if we didn't have those inspiring role models to follow, we would achieve far less.

The problem with this approach, however, is that we may feel that true satisfaction is going to be deferred until we reach some high peak of excellence; as we plod through beginners' music, scales and exercises, continually measuring our basic abilities with those of our favourite players, we are likely to feel a sense of futility, and that an unimaginably long, tedious and difficult journey lies ahead.

The truth is that most accomplished players have no sense of having arrived at their destination, but rather of continuing the journey they began many years before; there is always something new to learn and perform, and there is always room for technical improvement. 

Therefore a different attitude needs to be adopted by the student: the real joys and satisfactions are derived from the progress that is being made, day by day, lesson by lesson, year by year.  Small achievements should be acknowledged and celebrated, and each piece of music should be tackled just as if it were a towering work of great beauty and complexity.

You see: it's the journey that is the real source of happiness, regardless of where we perceive ourselves to be on that road.  Quite the worst thing would be to arrive at our destination... what then?  There would be only repetition of former achievements, a sense of staleness with the repertoire, and a loss of interest and enjoyment.  We would probably find ourselves taking up golf.

Provided a piece of music has real merit, no matter how seemingly simple it may be, it can be exploited for every drop if its artistic worth, and here lies the road to happiness in playing music.


David Pairman Classical Guitar Teacher (Exeter)

About The Author

After studying guitar and piano from an early age and playing in pop and jazz bands, I trained at The Guildhall School of Music and Drama in London for three years, being awarded the Graduate Diploma in Music and the year's prize for Best String Player. There I studied with Hector Quine the leading guitar teacher of the time, and my piano teacher was the late Carola Grindea, founder of the European Piano Teacher's Association and The International Society for Study of Tension in Performance.

Following post-graduate teacher training including modules in instrumental tuition, my guitar tutor book Easy Stretch Guitar was published in 1979. Since then I have performed and taught in several centres in England, settling in Exeter in 1999.



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